While Im Not " Working"

Even though at this time I am technically unemployed from my " full time job" I now find myself in a world that actually seems to be more difficult. As I have previously mentioned it has never been in my mind to be a stay at home mom, I like to work. I like to get dressed in my nice cloths, put makeup on for others to see, and go mean something at work. I never thought my calling was to be home with my kiddos full time.

However, the other day we were sitting down to dinner with my fiance who is still working in an office, because he is considered essential, and my kids could not wait to tell them about the day they had... WITH ME! I could not begin to tell you how incredibly happy that moment made me. The kids were talking about what mommy was doing and all the fun she came up with them.

Now, please don't get it twisted, I'm not a dead beat mom, I pay attention to my kids lol. But like I previously stated, Dad is normally the "fun one". I like to take my kids out and have fun with them shopping, going to movies, parks ect...

I gotta tell you, as my day came to an end, I felt really rewarded by all the work i had done around the house and with the kids, but MAN was I tired!

So, while I am not at work in an office, dressed and face put on, I'm still working very hard. I want to take some time over the next however long time I wont be at work to try some different things. So, here is my list of things I want to do, and want to take you along for the ride on.

Things To Do While Not Working: 

1. Try a Pintrest Weekly Cleaning list
2. Try the konmari method- for folding cloths( ill start with my cloths)
3. Reorganize the kids toys/ books/stuff
4. Start my Instagram book club( stay tuned for that)
5. Try new recipes and get the kids cooking!
6. Keep Making Fun Lunches


So, I have quite the list going, and I am sure that I will have more to add to it once i start moving. Next week, I am going to start my pintrest cleaning list. If you have one that has worked for you, please drop it down below in the comments and I will check it out.

Till tomorrow!  💗

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