Five Things I Wish I Did Before Turning 30

Yes, the title is scary. I turn 30 on April 6th... Although with all of this pandemic stuff happening, not sure that I will actually have a celebrations. Maybe instead I'll have an  Un-Birthday when this is all over...  ehhh lol who knows.

That is not what this post is about. This post is a list of things that I wish that I had done prior to turning 30 years old... the NON Mom version.

5 Things I Wish I Did Before Turning 30

1. Buy a house

  • I wish that I had bought a starter home, would have made the process after having children and being in a relationship a whole lot easier. 

2. Saved and put  $10,000.00 in the Bank

  • Having money in the bank would just make life easier in general. That safety nest would have made life so much easier. I cant tell you the  amount of things that could have changed if I had a safety net like this. 

3. Gotten a college degree

  • Ok, so I did not go to college. I have always said that I knew myself enough to know that college would be really hard for me. I don't  take test's well and I didn't want to spend a whole bunch of money on something that I would potentially fail at. It scared me so much that I just didn't do it... which I  regret. I wish that I had gone and done something outside of my comfort zone. 

4. Gotten Married

  • Keith and I have been dating for close to 10 years. We had kids really young... like I was 20 years old. I wish that before I turned 30 we were married, but having kids super young has kind of pushed that back.... like a lot. 

5. Started this BLOG

  • Gosh, like I have said before, I am so terrible at doubting myself. I constantly do it.I wish that I have done something like this so much sooner. I feel like if I had pushed myself to do something outside of my comfort zone it would have made me a better person. 
It's never too late is it? Can I do something better now? Sure. I just wish that I had done this so much sooner. Taken the Leap of Faith and made some of these things happen prior to turning 30 years old. It is so strange to think that I will be 30 years old. 

I can not wait to see what the next 30 years is going to be like. This is going to be magical. 

What are some of the things you wish you have done?

Till tomorrow. Love ya.💗





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